friend in me

sulating di-pormal

Kung meron man akong good qualities bilang tao ay hindi ko alam kung makikita sa listahan ang "mabuting kaibigan". Hindi dahil sa demonyita ako at bruha ha, hindi ko lang mai-qualify ang sarili ko as “good friend” (at iningles pa!). Hindi ko kasi alam kung ano ba ang qualifications o may qualifications nga ba para masabi mong isa kang mabuting kaibigan, tsaka para sa akin subjective yun. It’s your friend who can tell.

Ano nga ba ako klaseng kaibigan?

• Hindi ako clingy. As much as possible ayokong nagiging dependent sa kaibigan ko.

• I’m not always present. Hindi ako yung tipong andiyan all the time, may pagkakataong bigla akong naglalaho na parang kabute especially pag may mga bagay-bagay na mabibigat akong pinagdadaanan.
  

• Hindi ako yung tipo na pag nadapa ka e itatayo kita at ichecheer-up. Ako yung tipo na itatayo ka sabay sermon sabay tawa.

• Maaring hindi kita yakapin pag umiiyak ka at may mabigat na pinagdadaanan, minsan tapik lang sa balikat ang kaya kong i-offer at libreng softdrinks pag hindi ka na makahinga dahil barado na ang ilong mo sa kakaiyak.

Parang ang cold ko diba? But I cherish lahat ng uri ng friendships meron ako, kesehodang 5mins lang tayo nagkausap para sa akin may nabuo ng friendship, kung hindi man natin ma-sustain o maalagaan nandito na yun sa archive ng heart ko. Isa pa I don’t close doors on friendships, magsara man ito sa lahat ng aspeto pero hindi sa mga kumakatok para maging kaibigan ko.


Para sa lahat ng friends at future friends ko... enjoy this song:

Chorus: Count on me through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end
When you are weak
I will be strong
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...

I can see it's hurting you
I can feel your pain
It's hard to see the sunshine through the rain
I know sometimes it seems as if
It's never gonna end
But you'll get through it
Just don't give in 'cuz you can
(chorus)
I know sometimes it seems as if
We're standing all alone
But we'll get through it
Cuz love won't let us fall
(chorus)
There's a place inside all of us
Where our faith in love begins
You should reach to find the truth in love
The answers' there within, oh
I know that life can make you feel
It's much harder than it really is
But we'll get through it (we'll get through it)
Just don't give in
(chorus)

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